Korean Music & Dance

Lately i have been really into korean music, and they are great dancers as well ><
This started by a video linked posted by my friend, but since i surfed youtube, i found heaps more ^0^
I want to keep these links, but my facebook is already flooded with other videos, so i’ll post it here
Enjoy! ^^

Girl’s Generation(SNSD) – Sexy Dance (少女時代 소녀시대 HD hq live mv britney spears circus)

OMG!!! So COOL!!! ><
They are AWESOME!!!

SNSD — Tell Me Your Wish Genie at KBS2’s Music Bank

I loooveee their outfits, especially the pant ><
I wish i have great long legs like them T___T

SNSD – Genie MV

And here’s the Video Clip’s version
Again, those legs T___T

Girls’ Generation (SNSD)- Gee Dance Version 2

Hahaha, funny yet cute, and love the bright and pastel color, nice formation

SHINee Star Dance Battle 090125

Shit! so H.O.T !!!
Too bad can’t really see the face of the leader (the one in the white shirt), he’s so COOL!!!

Hyo Yeon of SNSD dance wth Jaewon Black Beat

Nice

Dance Battle 2007 MKMF – SNSD,WG,Kara,Black Pearl

LMAO!!! Kim Bum’s expression is sooo funny!!!

090815 Kara – Mister (Full Version) @ Music Core

They are all so PRETTY!!! well, as they should be, already famous and all.
But what a great idea, a bunch of already famous girls forms a group, INCREDIBLE!
Couldnt take my eyes off them ><
They’re PERFECT!

KARA, BEG, 4MINUTE, 2NE1 – Special Stage(Aug 16, 2009)

SEXY!!! 4 Sexy Korean GIRLs with cool dance moves ><

T-ARA – Lies(Aug 16, 2009)

Not a great dance and prettiest girl and all, but I LOVE THE SONG!!!!

Girls Generation(SNSD) – Genie(Remix Ver.)(Aug 15, 2009)

Love their sailor outfits ^^
and again, great legs ><

[MV] Kara – Wanna [Eng-Subbed]

so PRETTY!!! BEAUTIFULL!!! omg, i love them ><

…. will add more later

Letting go

It seems that i need to start letting go of a certain person…
It just seems that we are not meant to be together, so i wont press any further…
I’ve decided to let him go and let the chips falls where it may…
Here are quotes about letting go that i found from google:

“Courage is the power to let go of the familiar.” Raymond Lindquist

“You don’t need strength to let go of something. What you really need is understanding.” Guy Finley quotes

“Sometimes being a friend means mastering the art of timing. There is a time for silence. A time to let go and allow people to hurl themselves into their own destiny. And a time to prepare to pick up the pieces when it’s all over.” Gloria Naylor quotes (African-American novelist and educator, 1950)

“A sad thing in life is that sometimes you meet someone who means a lot to you only to find out in the end that it was never bound to be and you just have to let go.” Anonymous

“Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward.”Anonymous

“There are things that we never want to let go of, people we never want to leave behind. But keep in mind that letting go isn’t the end of the world, it’s the beginning of a new life.” Anonymous

“Sometimes you have to let go to see if there was anything worth holding on to.” Anonymous

“Hold a friend’s hand through times of trial, let her find love through a hug and a smile; but also know when it is time to let go-for every one of us must learn to grow.”Anonymous

“For this is wisdom – to love and live, To take what fate or the gods may give, To ask no question, to make no prayer, To kiss the lips and caress the hair, Speed passion’s ebb as we greet its flow, To have and to hold, and, in time let go”Anonymous

“We must let go of the life we have planned, so as to accept the one that is waiting for us.” Joseph Campbell quotes (American prolific Author, Editor, Philosopher and Teacher, 1904-1987)

“Just remember, when you should grab something, grab it; when you should let go, let go.”Anonymous

Change is never easy, you fight to hold on, and you fight to let go.-The Wonder Years

About Marriage 1

How true

Old rule: To have a strong marriage, choose a partner who shares the same background as you.
New rule: For a strong union, it doesn’t matter if your backgrounds are different; your negotiating and compromising skills are more important.

How satisfied couples are in their relationship is less a result of how similar their expectations and values are in the first place. It’s much more influenced by how they positively resolve decisions that come up — from what religion to raise their children to how often in-laws should be visited, from the importance of education to the importance of career growth, says Epstein. A husband and wife with identical upbringings can turn out to have a difficult marriage if they also each have a dig-in-my-heels-to-get-my-way attitude. And a couple who comes from opposite sides of the planet will have an enriching relationship if their priority is to embrace their different backgrounds as a good thing, while growing their love through compromise.

One of the best ways to compromise on a difficult issue, Epstein recommends, is to each write out what your ideal outcome would be, followed by a list of small changes you’d be willing to make to move nearer to a compromise. Putting your thoughts on paper is important, continues Epstein, because it helps you stay focused on your main “bulleted” points, and, when your partner shares his written points with you, there’s less likelihood that you’ll get caught up over the semantics of speech. For example, if a husband, who comes from a large extended family, wants to brunch with the entourage every Sunday, but his new wife, who grew up an only child and prefers quieter outings, doesn’t want to commit to booking every weekend this way, a session with pen and paper can help them see that at least a few options are evident, says Epstein. They could cut down on the frequency of visiting his family to a more comfortable (for her) one Sunday a month. Or, instead of spending an entire afternoon eating and carousing, limit the get-together to an hour. Her husband could also see his family every other weekend by himself. And she could be flexible about visiting more for holidays and birthday celebrations.

Remember, it’s not so much what you bring to your marriage that counts, but what you make of it that ultimately matters.

Farewell

Today my worker, called A didn’t come to work.
I was so worried, cause she usually called if she was sick, or her dad did. But today, no calls.
Even the old K said that she don’t know anything, although she didn’t look worried at all, so i guess she already know why, but not willing to tell.
I told mom and dad to try to contact her, just to show that we’re worried, we’re afraid that she gets into an accident, and as usual, the family thought she was working while she doesn’t turn up at work, so no one knows (like my uncle who was left unconscious in the hospital alone, luckily someone called with his mobile).
But we only know her mobile, and old K wont tell us her dad’s number.
We called her mobile, but no answer…

Anyway, during noon, she called my mom, telling that she’s quitting and wanting to study again and that she was doing some kind of examination…
So my mom was like, ok, whatever you want…
Then she came, and says farewell to us (my dad pretended to be asleep )
I shook her hand, said all the best, and she was like, okay, thank you..
Thats it, then she left…

My dad said she’s not studying, she work in the goverment office, continuing his dad’s place (we guess his dad retired)

I dont know, i was sad, but im also happy for her…
I do feel that now my work would be a load more without her, despite her sometimes crankiness, she actually was quite good.
She’s diligent, neat, and she did my Centro Stock everyday, which helps a lot…
Now i have to do her job by myself, im so sad. But i promise my self, i can do it! i do not need her! i can stand on my own
Despite all my sadness above, im glad for her, i really hope the best for her. At least she’s not as evil as K and not as stupid as T, she was my best worker ><

Well, goodbye, and godspeed A

Useless Lies?

Gw heran sama orang2 yang berbohong tanpa sebab yang jelas.

Contoh:

Kmrn malem ada orang mau ngojek, minta diambil nanti malem, trs ngomongnya sih “ga sampe setengah jam kok”.
Tp krn berhubung hari ini tanggal merah, gw takut ntr moro2 tutup toko, ya gw blg, besok ae lah, sapa tau toko tutup.
Trs ok, dia stuju. Trus dia minta tolong dipotongin disini sana (dgn diskripsi2nya..)
Uda minta cepet, minta dipotong2 pula, but i thought, less than 30min should be fine lah..

Eh, ternyata, untung gw hari ini ga tutup toko. Mana gua sakit parah lagi mendadak. Pikirin tadi uda mau bobo aja, cm dasar saya, ga enak bobo kalo ada kerjaan nunggu.. jadi kupikir mau cepet2 gw selesein, trus bobo.
Ternyata, setelah ku tarik, kok ya rekamannya tuh SATU SETENGAH JAM!!!
I just simply cant see why ppl got to lie without any reason, padahal sebenernya dia bohong begitu kan merugikan dirinya sendiri.

Coba misalkan kmrn aku ok-in ngambil hari ini, kan ntr dia dateng, gw sisa blg, oh maaf, belum selese.
Trus dia pasti marah2 kan? blg “kan kemaren janjinya hari ini!!!”
Nah, gua kan sisa blg aja, “loh, kan kmrn bpk blg rekamannya ga sampe setengah jam, lah ini saya tarik kok ternyata satu setengah jam, ya belum selese jadinya….”

Heran gitu loh, apa mereka kalo kedokter, ditanya bapak ada alergi?
Dia jawab, ohh, engga (padahal ada)
Trs bapak ada rasa sesak nafas atau jantung berdebar nggak?
si bapak “Engga, engga, ga ada apa2 kok”
trs dikasi obat ama dokternya..
MAMPUS loe langsung!
Huh!!! keki gw, heran @_@

Sakit = makan???

Penyakit bego sialan! Batuk pilek kok ga sembuh-sembuh! SEBEL!!!

Dan nyebelinnya, makin sakit, makin ngragas, mau makan mulu, and comfy food mulu yg dipengen!

ARGGGGHHHHH!!!!!!

I miss fefe….

Mana lagi bete buanget!!! setan sialan, why dont you just F***ing GO AWAY!!!!

Hhhh, bitch… the worst is having YOU in the family…

If U want to go to HELL, do NOT bring others DOWN with you! As you clearly DENY it anyways…

Seriously, a family is like a whole body, when you feet got a very dangerous disease, you should just cut it, rather than risking having the whole body infected.

Seriously!!!

Uhhh… knp ya kok aku laper terus, apa ada hubungannya ama sakit? kan obat2 bikin maag tuh…

Or krn aku lagi bete ><

Sebel…

Si mama lagi, its not that i want to get fat, but what the body feels, i cannot do anything against it…

Hiks, anak lagi sakit, disuru mikirin ttg getting fat… Hhhh… T____T

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Marriage Quote

Amy Bloom: Love at first sight is easy to understand; it’s when two people have been looking at each other for a lifetime that it becomes a miracle.

Ann Landers:All married couples should learn the art of battle as they should learn the art of making love. Good battle is objective and honest–never vicious or cruel. Good battle is healthy and constructive, and brings to a marriage the principle of equal partnership. Ann Landers Says Truth Is Stranger…, 1968

Booth Tarkington:An ideal wife is any woman who has an ideal husband.

Danny DeVito:There are two dilemmas that rattle the human skull: How do you hang on to someone who won’t stay? And how do you get rid of someone who won’t go? The War of the Roses

Joseph Barth:Marriage is our last, best chance to grow up.

Joyce Brothers:My husband and I have never considered divorce… murder sometimes, but never divorce.

Louis K. Anspacher:Marriage is that relation between man and woman in which the independence is equal, the dependence mutual, and the obligation reciprocal.

Mark Twain:After all these years, I see that I was mistaken about Eve in the beginning; it is better to live outside the Garden with her than inside it without her. Adam, in Adam’s Diary

Mark Twain:Love seems the swiftest, but it is the slowest of all growths. No man or woman really knows what perfect love is until they have been married a quarter of a century.

Mignon McLaughlin:A successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person.

Nanette Newman:A good marriage is at least 80 percent good luck in finding the right person at the right time. The rest is trust.

Robert C. Dodds:The goal in marriage is not to think alike, but to think together.

Simone Signoret:Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last –more than passion or even sex!

Peter F. Drucker:Unless commitment is made, there are only promises and hopes; but no plans. ~

Barnett R. Brickner: Success in marriage does not come merely through finding the right mate, but through being the right mate.

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